1) agreeby Choi Duck-Yoon
What is a friend? Friends are considerate of each other’s feeling and form a strong friendship. And if I can have full confidence in him(her), and he or she is the only one that really understands me ,that is friends. According to the above passage, we are naturally think friends are same sex friends.
But Opposite sex friends can be used if he or she is the one who is considerate of each other and do get along well. Persons with different sexes are hard to be friends in that they think in a different way. But opposite sex friends can meet a needy part that can’t be filled by the same sex friends. For example, girls are at odds about little thing and pay careful attention.
Men have little consideration for each other. But opposite sex friends can be the best friends if each try to make weaknesses full.
Moreover, there is a chance to understand the opposite sex by way of making friends with the opposite sex, which is helpful to build a complete character.
2) disagreeby Kim Sung-Min
I think that a man and a woman can’t be a real friend. Now I am in a second year after serving the army, and I am a man. Can’t make a friend between the opposite sexes? Why? Do not ask why. There can’t be an answer to such a question. A friend is a person who has long kept close relationship with someone, according to a dictionary. It commonly refers to a person who is close and in the same age group.
I said “Can’t make a friend” at these subjects, because I am a man. A man looks for a pretty woman. Even though a man has a girl friend, he looks at a gil who is pretty. It is natural, too, for a woman to look at the handsome guy. However, I think a man and a woman has wholly different idea in their mind. When a man and a woman met with each other, first of all a man is trying to be close if he finds a small attraction in a woman. However, if a man is kind, a woman becomes intimate with a man.
A woman is interested in a man, and she thinks that he is a good person. But a man? Most men are not kind to a woman if he does not have any interst in her. Even though you point out that my argument is nonsense, this is what really happens around us.Therefore, even if a woman thinks that we are friends, a man really wants to make their relationship go further. A woman thinks that if a man is kind to her, he is a good guy. However, that’s all. There is no more development in their relationship. Just because he is kind to her, she thinks he is a good guy. There would no woman who doesn’t like being treated kindly. A friend is a person who has long kept close relationship with someone, according to a dictionary.
It commonly refers to a person who is close and in the same age group. In this way all can be a friend in the same sense that a woman thinks. However, a man thinks differently. A man is always a wolf thinking about development of their relationship. I want to speak to a woman with a boyfriend about the reason why a man is unkind to a woman who has a boyfriend.
Why? Women may make a little understanding if she reads this article.
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